Love is my superpower

People that know me for who I am whether they grew up with me or met me later in life some other time know that I operate off love, it’s always been my frequency. I got it from my grandma and my mama. I believe in being transparent but I also do not believe in sharing every single detail of my life. I like it intimate.

People can only meet you as far as they have met themselves. I’m truly blessed to have the inner circle that I do have both near and far. I don’t have to regularly worry about people projecting their emotions, fears, and insecurities anywhere into my life. That would stress me out. Bc you went through something, you assume I’ll feel the same. Dynamics are different for every situation so nope I don’t feel the same. Bc you feel a certain way about a subject you assume I’ll feel that way too. Nope our temperaments and personalities are very different.

I always look at the big picture but most people don’t know how to do that so they take the lower vibration that’s just on the surface level then they play their emotions off of that. They do not care to go any deeper than the surface to get to the truth. Beware of poor communication skills.

Beware of the people that are eavesdropping and barely hearing what you say so that they may twist your words in an effort to start a conversation that may benefit them. Be aware of the people that feed into lower vibrations bc they are usually hurting more than you’ll ever know. Pay attention so you can save lives.

Love and stay true to those that truly care about you. No matter the situation they didn’t forget your character. Keep them close. An inner circle is not easy to build. I love my soul tribe and wouldn’t trade them for the world.

I am not perfect. I’m not always happy, not always at peace, but I do love above all no matter when, where, or what. Love is my superpower.




What you don’t tell them. They won’t know. They’ll assume bc that’s what people do best. Always worried about your next move before they make their first move. They can’t pray against you if you don’t tell them. They can’t be jealous of you living your life if you don’t show them. The problem today is that we overshare. The simple intimacy of beautiful things is lost in a selfie hidden with behind a filter. Your true self is silenced. They don’t want you to be who you are. They want a robot because society needs the fake. Everything around you encourages you to be something or encourages you to be nothing. We consume so many things that affect us in various ways. Ask yourself are you slowly dying or are you living from your consumption. If only there was a class to learn how to live and enjoy life. Life is a class. What lesson did you learn today of better yet what lesson did you teach today?

No, A Relationship Will Not Keep You Faithful

Shan Tell'em

Let’s talk about titles and fidelity. Too many people have crossed my path over the years who possess the notion that once they become committed in any way to someone, whether via monogamous relationship or marriage, that they will magically become faithful. It is as if there’s some switch that will turn off their cheating ways.

While I am sure that would be quite beneficial to everyone, no such a switch exist. Sorry.

I get that there is a certain level of seriousness that comes with commitment, but I am here to tell you that no matter how much you want to believe that a title will change your behavior, it won’t.

Don’t make me go to my inbox, but let’s just say that a ton of thirsty and very outwardly committed folks are lucky it isn’t my style to be messy and put folks on blast. Just sayin.’

Anyway, I hear…

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90s RnB or else

Confession: I was a nerdy but cool yearbook journalist in high school lol hence the collage! I’m a hopeless romantic and I find myself always craving 90s! 90s music, 90s vibe, 90s clothing, 90s tv shows, 90s movies, 90s mood…now-n-laters!! so I was telling my gf that it would’ve been cool to go to high school, college, and date in the 90s. I miss our bootyshaking mixtape music but also our sweet R&B melodies. My gf reminded me that we witnessed it all growing up and how amazing it was to grow up 90s style. The beauty is when I’m feeling nostalgic, Pandora takes me there! But check the poem within the collage. Spontaneous lol. More than love. It’s a whole vibe. 💜


Magic of you

The way the beautiful mind works is so magical! Gets me every time. The thought processes are interchanging but the degree of learning from one another is just so intoxicating to me whether I won or lost out on a situation. I am thankful for the experience regardless. Apparently business ventures call for 3 Instagram pages lol.

A few weeks ago I decided to embark on a business venture. I decided that it wouldn’t hurt to make an investment, make a profit from it, and help people in the process. We invest our time, energy, emotions, love, and pain into things all the time without a sounding promise of anything in return. We basically live on loan and give others unlimited interest on our minds, hearts, and souls. Why not give ourselves unlimited interest on all of the above if we can give it to someone else so easily. Success feels like lots of rainbows chasing you! Instagram: Ladybeautyboutique

As a people, we all have many passions and skills. We develop skills throughout our lives but we are born with passions. We have the power to create our work when we want to. I have a love for beautiful things and making people feel their best just off my energy alone. I love to help others. I have a passion for simply giving love because I believe that everyone deserves to feel love.

All of my business ventures revolve around helping others. Look inside yourself and unlearn everything that you’ve been told that causes you to fear standing out from the rest. Unlearn everything that you’ve been told to cause you to bury your passions that you had as a child. The truth is we all have these dreams as children and then they are dispelled because we are told dreams don’t make money. Few parents actually believe in their children and few friends actually believe in their friends. People want to see you do good just not better than them. Let that marinate. I am thankful to have real and true supporting family and friends when it comes to all of my goals, business ventures, successes, and beautiful failures.

Life is about success, failure, making beautiful connections with beautiful souls, and making ageless memories full of soul. Love love in the moment of NOW. That means laugh in the rain, smile in the sun, and heal through the storm. If you want to rewrite your story, rewrite it. You have the power to change whatever you need to so that you can live by and in accordance with you. Understand that not everything has to look like everything else.

Enjoy life through the guise of you. So this is not a how to- but a live by-

Live by whatever places you in your element

Live by whatever brings you peace

Live by your greatest desires

Live by the strength you gained from the pain endured

Live by your own recognition for the things you’ve done

Live by your own satisfaction

Live by your own approval

Live by your own love

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Coachella 2018! Finally…I’ll be blogging a how-to on purchasing tickets and everything else needed to know about the run-down on start-finish coachella fun. Get ready! Instagram: mrspeachez

Super Saiyan Energy Flow

I’ve been having a strong craving lately to write, to paint, and to just sit back and observe the world around me. I love people watching and I love looking at the ocean because it is never-ending. I have been researching to see what little things that I can do to improve my blog. Most of what I have found says to keep the posts 500 words and under, also including bullets. People like bullets so if you look at a few previous posts before this post then you’ll see the growth of my bulleted lists because practice eventually makes perfect right. I miss writing poetry and painting but I’m sure I will make time for both soon if I can ever stop watching “AWrinkle in Time” because lately it is all I have been watching. It is everything I stand for and preach 24/7 raise those vibrations.

I just got my hair dyed after having a year’s long debate about it with myself. A few of my arguments were that I cannot wear blonde hair to work so how will I pull that off? Then I thought about it, most people go in to work with a disguise so what is the difference? Well the difference is, this is who I am. I have refused to lose myself to my job for years as I watch some people do every day. I have succeeded in remaining true to myself and not drinking the poison. My subordinates respect me even more for my truth. I stand in defiance against something that says that everyone is different but must look and act the same. What the heck of an oxymoron that is? Okay I’ll wear my hair pulled back but underneath it all, I am me. Blonde and powerful as can be. I am a Super Saiyan.

Super Saiyans have different levels. Humans have different levels. Either vibrations are high or they are low. If they are low then there is black, there is darkness such as greed, envy, grief, hatred, vengeance, retribution, violence, and etc. If the vibrations are high then the hair is big, bright, blonde, and flowing with positive energy. When we are challenged throughout life, we have the power to decide how we want to feel and react to that force of energy. There is a shield of energy formed around the super sayian to defend himself. This is the aura form of the human. Either a human’s aura is weak or strong. Weak auras are susceptible to negative energies and all bad things. They succumb to darkness and dark feelings. Strong auras deflect negative energy and they are more resilient because they bounce right back from hard times. When a strong aura is attacked, it does not dwell on the attack itself. It uses the attack to add to their strength. When we are attacked as humans, we are supposed to use those attacks as a lesson in life. All things in life that happen to us are tools to use later on in our life experience throughout our human existence. We take those lessons of failure and shape them into success.  Pink is an even higher level of peace and I aspire to be have my hair dyed pink one day in the near future.

How to Raise your Vibrations

1. Gratitude

2. Forgive

3. Enjoy

4. Listen

5. Observe

6. Pleasure

7. Give

8. Flow

9. Experiment

10. Engage

Vibrate higher Super Saiyan final form!

I’m a Super Saiyan duh!

Do not reduce yourself for people. Do not reduce yourself so they can understand you or so they can feel comfortable around you. That is emotional abuse. Make them come to your level to get you but do not go down to get them. Meet people where they are in life not for their past or potential but who they are in the present day. People change.

Keep a 🚫NO LOW vibrations posted in your life. Either they vibrating on my frequency or above it bc I am not coming down off my cloud to go get them. They will have to do the work to get to me. Vibrate high. Once I sense fake, I chop it off bc it’ll spread like cancer and affect everything else in my life if I don’t remove it. If it’s not authentic keep it away from me. I like my life real.

Can’t talk butterfly language to caterpillar minds. People only understand you from their level of perspective in life not yours. You speaking giraffe and they’re gossiping turtle smh. They don’t understand you bc they aren’t there yet. Let life learn them.

The goal is to not produce or be a product of any unnecessary trauma. Leave it better or leave it alone. Always try to leave things better than you found them.

Vibrate higher…Super Sayian