Avoiding & Neutralizing

What is this social media and games for anyway? From Instagram to Facebook, twitter, all the way back to the infamous MySpace. MySpace started all of this mayhem. Now people won’t even look up at each other to share a conversation because they are too busy trying to Snapchat their food. Stuck on their electronic devices disconnected from earth.

This neglect does not go unnoticed since the people are being punished with electromagnetic field radiation (EMF) from the very devices they ignore the earth for. The earth wants our attention and the people that ignore it are getting sick from the radiation emitting from the phone, WiFi routers, etc.

Unless one is woke enough to protect themselves, we are all at risk. Googling the harmful effects of EMF as we continue to ingest technology because we surely cannot get enough of it from social media to games played for long periods of time.



-DNA changes


The list goes on…

The ex (earth) wants to love you and the current (technology devices) is deceiving you. Choose to love the Earth.

Fighting EMF by avoiding & neutralizing

1. Crystals neutralize ions (crystals)

2. Himalayan pink salt lamp

3. Unplug household items not in use

4. Buy a sticker shield for devices

5. Use a headset for the cell phone

6. Ground yourself (barefoot in grass)

What a disaster that something that was supposed to help has become.


You Have To Love Her On Her Bad Days Too

Every woman needs this in her life!

Discovering Your Happiness

Hello loves ❤

You have to love her at her best when she’s happy and smiling. Love her in all the good moments. The days where you look at her and you think you’re the lucky one.

Love her on the nights out where you are laughing and smiling like you are the only ones in the room. Love her on the nights where you’re holding her close and something about her touch just makes your toes curl. The mornings you wake up holding her. The naps where you’re just happy she’s there.

Love her in the moments she makes you laugh so hard you’re crying. Love her in the moments you’re watching your favorite show even though she doesn’t like it, she doesn’t say anything.

Love her in the moments she suggests hanging with your family.

Love her when she’s making you better. Helping to do the right thing…

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Getting Wiggy

You may think that wigs cost a ton of money but if you buying them with thought, they don’t. I just bought 5 wigs for under $200 but it took me 20 minutes to decide! 1 wig usually costs $300 or more by itself. You can achieve the same look the celebrities have for less. I buy both human and synthetic hair wigs from everyday beauty supply and hair stores. A reasonable price for me is $50-60 for human hair wigs. For synthetic wigs, $25-40 is the general price range. I love color so factor that into your decision making as well if you love color like me. Also, most places will give you 10% off the wig if you buy it off the mannequin head. Keep all of this in mind while you are shopping.

First things first PATTERNS!




-loose wave


-Tight curl

-Lose curl


-kinky curly

-kinky straight

And so many more types.

1. Choose a hair pattern

2. Decide type of lace and feel throughout wigs for lace comfort. You’re looking for something soft and light in weight. Something that will fit your head comfortably.

3. Run your fingers through the hair to make sure it doesn’t tangle and or shed a lot. You want minimal shedding and little to no tangling.

4. Pluck the “part” of the wig to make it appear more natural. If it is s full lace frontal then you want to trim and pluck the edges as well to create a natural appearing hairline.

5. When you take your wig off, store it in a safe place. I take care of my wigs and some are years old. I apply mousse to refresh the curls and sometimes oil sheen. I don’t apply any other products because they create buildup. Take care of your wigs and they will last a long time.

6. Take care of your hair and nurture it beneath the wig as well. Wigs are protective styles. Natural hair vs wigs.

This is all it takes to not spend an arm and a leg on wigs. Spread the love and happy wig shopping to you!

Nitty Gritty air travel

Great news in numerology I’m a 6 and my ex is a master 11! Well that explains a lot! Matchmade in Heaven! I challenge you to examine your numerology number!!

Anyway so I want to talk about travel today and how to travel as easily as possible. No need to book a travel agent when all of the information is readily available to you!

-We can start with buying a flight.

-Download Hopper app

-Select dates

-Monitor flight

-Buy flight

First thing I do is figure what month I want to travel. I use the app hopper to help me decide on specific dates because it gives a price overview breakdown of month and day. You decide which dates and then you select watch and hopper will notify when the price of tickets drop so that you can buy them. Hopper notified me at 8am a few months ago that my hawaii to ga flight had dropped to $300! I woke up and bought that flight so fast I think it’s the fastest I’ve ever woke up and gotten up. I use hopper to decide what airline to purchase tickets from and when. I generally stay away from holidays and big events bc Airlines increase their prices. I have found that American Airlines always have great hawaii deals well for me, their flights have been the cheapest. Now that we have bought a ticket, let’s discuss how to save money on extra flight & hotel expenses.

-Save money & Time and do CARRY-On

-Pack light


-Check-in online & straight to TSA

-no baggage claim waits or lost baggage

-hotels.com or air b&b

CARRY-on only if you can help it instead of checking bags. I have a fear of losing my bags so I always do carry-on plus small personal item when I’m vacationing. Small duffle and a backpack for me.

The weather of the trip determines how I pack. If it is a warm trip to somewhere tropical then I pack about 3 sundresses, 4 swimsuits, 2 pair of shorts, pj’s, light coat/cardigan, flip flops. Travel size toiletries. I pack enough to leave room for my souvenirs. In Thailand, I ended up buying a new bag as a souvenir smh. If it is a cold trip then I pack 2-3 pair of jeans, 4 long sleeve shirts, 1-2 short sleeves, pair of sneakers, and cute heels. Everything fits into a duffle. I put my snacks and electronics in my backpack. Realistically, I have 3 personal items but I consolidate them into 1 bc the other 2 bags fit into my backpack. Boom no checked bag fees! Now what can we do after we arrive to our destination.

-Plan your days

-YouTube & google

-Facebook travel pages/groups

My vacation length is what determines the planning for it. I only spent 4 days in Thailand so I googled and YouTubed to figure out exactly what I wanted to do since I only had a short time there. I decided on creating a 4 day itinerary myself that included specific bars and activities that we would attend. I chose rollerball zorbing and tiger kingdom for my group. We hit patong beach and Bangla road and truly lived spontaneously! Must Took Took!

-Use dating apps to mingle with locals in close proximity to figure out specific day activities.

Our restaurants and bites to eat were all of spontaneous adventure and so were our amazing Thai massages $20 for an hour so I tipped $20. On the other hand if my trip is a week or 2 then I sort of play it all by ear and that is when I have the most amazing time! I spent a week in Jamaica and we just chose something at the desk to do as the days progressed. Each day was a new adventure with our favorite tour guide. Find a local tour guide you vibe with and you’ll be contributing to a family instead of a business.

Puerto Rico was extremely spontaneous! I actually used the dating app “plenty of fish” to get a consensus from the locals of where to go for fun not dating just fun. My consensus included popular tourist club Brava and popular local hangout La Placita! La Placita was my favorite part of Puerto Rico! I love to delve in to the culture of where I am. In Puerto Rico the party starts on thurs and ends on Sunday! We rented a car and had a blast. Next time I go I’m staying in San Juan off the strip and will not rent a car.

There are certain places you’ll go that will require a lot more planning to get the best bang for your buck so research the places ahead of time using google, YouTube, and Facebook travel groups like girls love travel! There are a variety of different groups that have a lot to offer a new traveler. Open your mind and explore all of your options. Talk to friends you see traveling frequently bc they may also have great tips for travel. I made the mistake of not planning for a Paris Friday night out. My friend and I ended up just walking the street mingling because even the locals were asking us what to do. Oh and you had to be on the list to get in and if you were not then you had to buy a bottle. Um $400. Nope we are good and we will walk the streets and mingle. Make sure you plan your Friday night in Paris!

With all of that said, Pack light, plan your day, enjoy every moment. Get the money you put into your trip right back out of your trip! Traveling is living.

My travel is all about healing and truly part of my Journey to Peace! The world is so big and each place I visit will always hold a special place in my heart. I encourage you to book a flight to the first place that comes to your mind. Thailand and Bali are currently on my mind. Time to book the flights and gain even more travel insight into more travel knowledge. The more you know!

Tribute to Time

Tribute to Time.

Time, without you I would not know how to live in every moment. Without you I would not understand the past. As you go on, I get wiser and wiser. Without you, I would likely take so much of life for granted. Time, I truly appreciate you even though you were not on my list of tributes initially, I mean somehow I forgot about you. How ironic right? I forgot about you. I want to apologize because sometimes I forget that you will not always be there. Everyone calls you father but I know that you’re like a mother because you tell us to take care that you are precious and that you’re not to be played with. Time, you are our keeper and it’s hard to believe that so many people lose track of you. You are here to help us and guide us through life. It is through you that we learn lessons and are reminded later the reason why we had to learn those lessons to be where we are. Time, I must say that the future nor the past is more important than how much you are right now in this moment. Thank you Time for allowing me to see you for who you are and showing me that life goes on. The world revolves simply around you and so does the entire universe so you must be true. If we could all focus more on you and not procrastinate then maybe people wouldn’t have so many regrets if they just took life a little slower with you instead of rushing things through and not remembering all the memories with you. Time, I want you to know that you are beautiful and people should pay more attention to you. You are truly the essence of us all. Oh my, how you fly by #peachyquote


The Brown Sugar Café

What does love sound like?

The voice of understanding and patience…

What does love feel like?

The bosom of compassion and selflessness…

What does love smell like?

The fragrance of forever…

What does love taste like?

The sweet nectar from the fruit of the Spirit…

What does love look like?

You and me…

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Fruit of the Living

Don’t be afraid to live. What’s the worst that can happen. Here’s to zip-lining in the pouring rain then escaping flooding roads with a 2 hr trip around the island of Oahu.

Good news! Got the tires today without any complications so all 4 pillars of my being are ready to rock and roll yall! Let’s go!

So many people talk about dying and going to Heaven. What it takes to get to Heaven. Or they talk about what animal they want to be in a reincarnation or that’s what they believe in. I’d rather not focus on any of that. We are all spiritual beings in an Earth Suit that were put here on Earth to get it right. You only live once is so many people motto so they try to live like they are dying tomorrow. I say put the spin on that and live like you are living forever. What’s this red team versus the blue team and if we can speak our life into existence then why aren’t people not speaking beauty, freedom, peace, and love into existence?

Do they not know how beautiful these abstract things feel? I am so worried about the world that we live in. People need so much healing as I’m sitting here researching professional cuddling laughing out loud. I truly just want to heal the world one broken soul at a time. I think in order to do that we need to be open and honest with ourselves to make sure we aren’t just spreading brokenness disguised in a help form. Talking to my amazing stylist, she said I love that everyone wants to be a spiritual advisor and give advice but what if they are not living what they preach. What if they don’t have any temperance nor control over their emotions but here they are trying to give advice to someone as if their way is the right way. My thoughts are that if they do not have temperance then they cannot welcome other emotions that are not like their own and they will only be able to meet people at their own level. Nothing more nothing less. So my take is when you have a negative person giving you advice on your life and spiritually advising through their broken spirit then they are spreading negativity and brokenness. This is sad but it happens all of the time and I see it. Partly because misery loves company so you have to be careful with venting because some people take pleasure in pain. Some people get a rush from your misery. You have allowed some people to feel better at the expense of your prolonged emotional pain. I’m not saying don’t vent, I’m only saying be careful of the spirit that you vent to because just because it shines bright from the outside does not mean that it is shining bright on the inside.

I will tell you that most people that vent to me, I leave them better than I found them. I do not leave them to dwell on their pain or encourage them to live painful lives, I help them to release it in multiple ways and I help them to live their lives the way that they want to or the life they aspire. I do not leave them only to their sadness, I tell them that they need to completely feel every emotion regarding the pain in order to face the pain, deal with the pain, and heal from the pain in their own time because this is their journey to peace. Some people give up completely just because they were hurt. They are afraid to be hurt again. I’m sorry, did you die? Nope, you’re still here. Heal yourself from inside out and continue on with your life. Whoever hurt you does not deserve the satisfaction of gifting you with a life full of pain and grudge held blessing barrier. That’s right, grudges block your blessings. Forgive them and let go of everything that was holding you where you were because you are no longer there.

I have forgiven so many people in my life including the people that did not even know that they hurt me. I forgive others so that I can have peace. My forgiveness counts to me whether they know I forgave them or not. Sometimes they don’t even know they hurt me and it is not my job to tell them, although sometimes I do because I believe that there is a lesson in everything. However, we are too old to be telling grown people what they did wrong to get dismissed from our lives. I don’t hate anyone but I do love people from a distance. Everyone is not a friend. So don’t call or make everyone a friend. Some people are just associates, acquaintances, and temporary friends. Do not try to keep people that were never meant to stay because they will bring you great pain if they do not want to be there. This does not mean that people that are experiencing a phase in life that requires their personal time and attention deserve to be left behind or forgotten. Do not forget them because you could be forgetting or leaving behind something very special. I am simply saying let them be what they are to you, who they show you that they are, and that is your answer to the puzzle. People that want to stay will talk and behave like they want to stay and people that want to go will SIMPLY go SO JUST LET THEM. I have learned a valuable lesson in all of those titles and all of the puzzle pieces fit perfectly. I thank all of those people for their lessons. Nobody teaches us the true keys in life. I don’t know everything but I do have a few ideas so I’ll share them with you.

I believe that we are meant to live free first and foremost. Do not let other people attempt to control your life just so they can say they helped you with their low vibrational skills. Unfortunately, most people are not at the spiritual level to understand situations from multiple perspectives. They can only see things as deeply as they have seen and or met themselves so they meeting you on their level. What if you are spiritually above their level then whatever they have to say or encourage does not coincide with your life. It is not your responsibility to take advice from others. In fact, that’s one of the worst low vibrational things that you could ever do. Others are influenced by society. Please live your life for you. That means if you want to mess up and it is not going to kill you then go mess up laughing out loud. It’s your life to live how you want to live it.

The deeper picture is that we have to go through whatever we need to go through for ourselves to get our lesson out of it. However, people sometimes waste too much time focusing on their past feelings and worrying about the future rather than evoking new senses and sensations that have not even been discovered yet within themselves. I feel like we are all bigger than what we think that we have been given.  It is up to us to unleash our true power and prove to ourselves that we are bigger than what we have been given. The resources are right in front of us to do so, we just need to open our eyes and perform at our final form (DragonballZ reference).

Love, happiness, power, courage, but it all comes down to cancelling out the root of all issues. Cancel out the fear of what may happen because of what has happened. Cancel out fear and how you used to feel and consider focus on the current feeling of what you’re feeling right now. Living in the now. It is great to learn from the past but some people get lost and continue to live in it all while watching their whole lives past them by. Fear keeps so many people in their place. Please do not become a prisoner of fear. Live for you and overcome all of your fears. They wake up and say I wish I would have done or had done or had lived life like…

Apparently they thought about all of the wrong things. I can say this is because most people are taught to love and value things. People are always hurting so they end up not being valued. For some reason the concrete things cancel out the people. What is becoming of humanity? The money, cars, clothes, and other concrete things are what is being given the most time rather than the abstract beautiful things like pain and pleasure. Love and Peace. Desire and Disaster. All those memories wasted on a what could’ve been…

You can have all the abstract without having the concrete. It’s all in the mind. You have to work on using your power to condition your eyes to see what it is that you’d want to see. You have to transform the illusion of your life into whatever you want it to be. It’s nice to have everything that I have but I’m convinced that I’d still have all of my abstract things even if I did not have the concrete things. I’d still have my peace, spirituality, my big heart, my love, my energy, faith in God, and my faith in a better world even without clothes, money, cars, and all those other things that don’t really matter. I’d probably be even closer to peace and love ultimately achieving the highest form of my spiritual goals simply by not having all of those things.  All of those things are just distractions and they are not real. They are just a level to complete so we can get out and go on to the next. Will you fail or succeed from working about all of those concrete things that don’t matter. Things you see that you think you want but really want a difference in your life. I was sent here to tell you that they are distractions and the world is so much bigger than what we all believe. Get a taste of everything at your fingertips before it slips away.

In a Facebook post with a new Facebook friend that kind of thinks like me, he said we will live forever. It made me think of an episode of “Black Mirror” and my response was that We can live forever but at some point will we exhaust the will of living. In the episode of “Black Mirror”, they have the option to die and then live forever in a simulation. A lot of those people within the simulation are miserable no matter what year of their life they travel back or forward into through time. Regardless, they are still broken souls because they died broken souls. I came to the conclusion that maybe that is the goal. The goal is to live as beautiful as possible for as long as we can.

What does living beautiful require?

1. A life of PEACE.

2. FALLING IN LOVE with others and with life because you get to experience so much all at once

3. Facing FEAR and having the COURAGE to overpower it and overcome whatever situation has you

4. Connections and INTIMACY. Life itself is intimate and through those connections you feel all life

Please share your thoughts on your top things that living beautiful require or means to you. I love the minds and opinions of others.

Thank you for sharing.